Author: Franco
Coaching
Something wrong you need to fix
One thing that marriage support specialists have in common is to assume you’re doing something wrong that needs to be fixed. Sadly, this is also the assumption of men who seek their help. That’s an easy marketing because it leverages on two things. The insecurity of many humans have. This is the basic of advertising. […]
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Relationship’s wrong questions
How to know when it is time to give up? That’s the wrong question. A better question would be: How to know when YOU GAVE UP. You gave up the moment you stopped taking care of your happiness. This happens when a miserable marriage takes from you so much energy that you stop achieving anything […]
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She cheated on me. She did not show love. I’ve taken full ownership of my part
I came across a facebook post in a private group (I won’t share the link) in which the user discussed the situation of his in-house separation. His wife is cheating on him, relegated him a one child temporarily in a box-room (I have no idea what it is), he claims she denied him love, she […]
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Resuming MEETUP.com groups
I’m glad to announce that starting from this Monday, June 23rd, we are resuming the weekly zoom meetups. For more than two years, we have gathered online as a supportive community, providing a safe space where spouses in stressful marriages can share their experiences of marital neglect and unjust treatment. In these virtual meetings, members […]
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The 4 Milestones on the Divorce Road
The first checkpoints along your path to happiness will be reached when you gain awareness of the situation. If you don’t walk past these initial intermediate goals, divorce will be a bleeding of money and fixing the marriage will be a delusional nightmare.
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Jimmy on relationships… sucks
Jimmy is this self-professed-bad-husband youtuber that claims he saved his marriage by apologizing once he realized how bad he was.
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Trump won. Now what?
Extremist depiction of politics from media doesn’t reflect actual people’s moderate views. Spouses vote in opposite ways, but they’re not far from each other.
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Emotional cheating: not your typical strawberry
Who says that emotional cheating is cheating, is wrong. Rarely, emotional cheating can be a reason to end a marriage. This does not make it wrong. This doesn’t even make it bad. But then, why is emotional cheating so deeply hated and considered dangerous for romantic couples and spouses? Everybody agrees it’s a red flag […]
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Your ex is not complying? File a motion!
How to file a post-divorce motion in New Jersey by yourself without the need to pay a lawyers. You can download a pdf with all the forms
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Coaching
Who are you doing a favor for?
Let’s be honest. Who are you helping? I respect your decision to continue with your relationship. But living a miserable life, doesn’t mean you’re useful to anybody, let alone yourself.
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Mediation or litigations? What a stupid question! Of course it is…
In mediation, a neutral third party, known as a mediator, instead of two partisan and expensive lawyers, helps divorcing couples negotiate and reach an agreement.
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Start couple therapy if you wanna break up ugly
The Ugly Truth 💔 about Couple Counseling🕵️♀️ Doing couple therapy with the goal of saving a marriage not only is a waste of time, but also is dangerous. In fact,…
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